The Magic of Fingers: Best Fingering Techniques

There’s so much more to sex than just penetration. In fact, sex and orgasm can happen without it. You might have grown up thinking that penetration is the only way to achieve ultimate pleasure, but that’s just not true. There are different techniques that you can explore to reach orgasm, and one of the most versatile ones is fingering.

Fingering involves using your fingers to stimulate your partner’s erogenous zones, particularly the clit and vagina. It may seem easy, but it requires some practice to master. The key is to understand that your fingers have more flexibility in movement compared to a penis or sex toy.

To ensure safe and pleasurable fingering, cut your nails, experiment with speed, and use lube. Once you have the basics down, you can try out some of the best fingering techniques that can make your partner scream in pleasure.

Here are some of the best fingering techniques that can take your sex life to the next level:

1. Come-Come: This technique involves using an upward curling motion with your fingers to touch your partner’s upper wall of muscle or their G-spot. To elevate this move, make sure to move your fingers in and out and use your palms as well to grind against the vaginal mound.
2. Say Hello: While keeping the same finger position as the Come Hither technique, instead of moving it up and down, this technique will have your curled fingers moving side to side, mimicking a hand-wave. This will give a slightly different sensation to the G-spot but the effect is still incredibly impactful. Additionally, it gives the receiving partner options based on a core finger position.
3. Tuck and Roll: Following the nature of slowly intensifying fingering techniques, this is a step up from the Wave Away because the giving partner is twisting their fingers from one hip to another. This movement is intense by nature but if you add more fingers to the mix, then it could double or triple in sensation. It doesn’t just stop there, doing the Barrel Roll also gives you the opportunity to use your palms to stimulate the clit on the outside, opening the receiving partner to the possibility of a multiple orgasm or an orgasm that happens from two different places but close together.
4. Feast: This is more of an advanced technique but this involves fingering the receiving partner while the giving partner eats them out. This puts both the fingers and tongue to work because it stimulates both the receiving partners’ G-spot and clitoris. Not only that, the Buffet also uses two different textures to provide an experience that no one will feel bored of at any time so this is perfect for any couple who’s willing to let their imagination wild and hit the ground running with their fingering escapade.
5. Flow: There’s no fancy name for this one because the technique itself is already a lot in the best way. If you’re familiar with squirting, you might also be aware that it may or may not happen to your partner. Still, it’s worth a try! All the giving partner has to do is to insert two fingers with your palm facing up and with your other hand, use two fingers to rub circles around their clit. So you’ll be doing two different kinds of motions simultaneously. Now, this isn’t a skill that can be mastered in one go, it takes lots and lots of practice and even then, you still might not get it. Give yourself and your partner patience as well in order to avoid forming disappointment and resentment too.
6. Prop it up: Another advanced technique is to seek the support of props or sex toys in your fingering conquest. As a couple, several toys can definitely spice up an already flavorful dish. Blindfolds like the “No Peeking Blindfold” are the perfect starter! It can help put a pause to some of the senses first and give focus to the only one that matters at the moment! Wand vibrators like the “Pomi Wand” are an excellent choice as they provide powerful external stimulation to your sensitive areas while your fingers finish the job. This combination can lead to mind-blowing orgasms and leave you feeling completely satisfied. Bullet vibrators like the “Orenda” are a delicious side to the main course because it highlights the scrumptious pleasure of the fingers pleasuring your insides without taking the spotlight away from it. Handcuffs like the “Kinky Play Wrist Cuffs” are another option if there’s a need to have something completely off the regular path. It works the same as blindfolds — only, instead of obstructing your vision, it obstructs your ability to move. It’s temporary, though! Its purpose is to teach a receiving partner to surrender to a giving partner’s ministration and fully enjoy without stress or reservations.

Remember, every person is different, and the role of fingering in orgasm is dependent on your partner. It takes exploration and communication to see what they like and don’t like, and to improve on your techniques.

Fingering is an easy yet effective way to stimulate the clit and vagina, and give your partner an unforgettable experience. Keep these tips in mind to avoid hurting your partner or ruining their image of what good fingering is like. So lube up, loosen up, and go slowly and carefully, whether indoor or outdoor.